A couple of hours before the party, fill the bath with lovely warm bubbly water (I know you love the fizzy, scrumptious bathing goods) and have a glass of whatever you like and listen to some sexay music and give yourself a good, long, delicious orgasm. Or two. Let the hubby join in. Or not. PAMPER yourself.

Then get dressed for the party, and make sure you have good quality dark chocolate to nibble on. You'll wear your costume with an air of sex appeal and confidence, because you don't need a costume to have fun, but it certainly is fun to dress up.

I know I always feel divine after a good wank.