Dean in bed - a discussion

[salixbabylon]

You know how when you're waking up but not quite there and thoughts just wander into your head? Puzzles to be solved, ideas to be pondered. Questions for the ages.

So, f-list, what do *you* think Dean Winchester is like in bed? (With girls - not Sam.)

He's obviously a good enough flirt and touchy enough to get girls to go somewhere semi-private enough to fuck them. And if you see them after, they always seem to have that tired-but-very-pleased well-fucked look, and wouldn't mind another tumble.

Do you think he's aggressive and in control and dominiant? Or do you think sex is the only time he lets his playful side out? Does he make sure the girls get off first or is he pretty focused on just his own needs? Does he ever have tender romantic sex or is it all fun-but-unemotional?

Lisa apparently thought he was notable enough to still be talking wistfully about their weekend together 8 years later... And he was willing to be creative and open to suggestion enough to have "the bendiest weekend of his life." That *was* eight years ago, though - is he different in bed now that he's 30?

Discuss!

Comments

What do I think Dean Winchester is like in bed???

[softbluebuddy.livejournal.com]

Hon, I read this entry right before I left for work and I would love to go back and forth with you about this all day, but I am seriously going to be tied up here at work for the next 8 to 10 hours, though if you'd like to go back and forth by IM later, that would be awesome.

Because I spend a good portion of every day thinking about what Dean Winchester would be like in bed.

I have narrowed it down to a few thoughts: I think he would be very responsive to his partner, I don't think he'd leave her unsatisfied, I think he could be playful and flirty, but also commanding and dominant if that is what his partner wanted, I don't think that if he had the whole night with a girl that it would be one time, I think he'd go all night, I think that he'd try anything at least once, I think he'd be a champ at going down on a girl, I think he'd be okay with toys in the bedroom, I think he'd be okay spanking a girl and talking completely filthy to her, I think he could be as sweet as could be. I think he could be all these things even to one girl, over one night.

I know you posted this for discussion and you weren't asking for a rec, but I did write a 7 chapter fic where Dean meets a woman who asks him to spend the weekend with her for no strings attached sex. After their first time she says she is embarrassed because it was all about her. He assures her that it was so hot being with a woman who isn't afraid to say what she likes and doesn't make him guess. He tells her in fact his biggest fantasy would be to help her live out all her fantasies over the weekend.

So anyway, all that stuff that I daydream about Dean doing in bed with a woman is in my fic called Shot Through The Heart, it is in my master fic post at the top of my journal with links.

If you don't like recs, I apologize, but since I don't have time to comment back and forth till much later today, that's what I got.

If you ever do want to IM about this, I'd love to. Seriously love to.

[sarka.livejournal.com]

I... have no opinion on the matter.

*stares unfocusedly into the middle distance*

*eyes glaze over*

*windows steam up*

...Sorry, what?

[tularia.livejournal.com]

I can see Dean being everything a woman wants, and just how exactly he'd go about it would depend on the type of relationship.
A quickie? I think he'd see to the woman before getting his own jollies, but it probably wouldn't be an all-nighter. Life of a hunter just doesn't allow the time, ya know?
Now, if he managed to settle down, I can see him being an all around great bed partner. From quirky to sexy to romantic to hotter-than-hellfire and kinky too. Men learn to love women better as they get older - when sex becomes more than just getting off - so I can see him treating a woman at 30 better than he did 25.

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

I have no brain right now, so I'm not gonna give a full reply. But I want to say how much I love you for this! YAY!

[redrouged.livejournal.com]

Oh I have no idea, except that it would be waaay too hot.

[soar38.livejournal.com]

I kind of feel that he'd use a lot of humour at first to set a girl at ease, make her smile, a few cheeky winks, sexy grins, his charm just oozing all over her until she's hooked.

I think he'd be very responsive to a girl's needs, he's never seemed the type to be all about himself. Having said that, he seems to choose the more adventurous types for his one night stands.

I think he's quite open to trying new things as well, especially if there's the promise of a mind blowing orgasm at the end of it.