Dean in bed - a discussion

[salixbabylon]

You know how when you're waking up but not quite there and thoughts just wander into your head? Puzzles to be solved, ideas to be pondered. Questions for the ages.

So, f-list, what do *you* think Dean Winchester is like in bed? (With girls - not Sam.)

He's obviously a good enough flirt and touchy enough to get girls to go somewhere semi-private enough to fuck them. And if you see them after, they always seem to have that tired-but-very-pleased well-fucked look, and wouldn't mind another tumble.

Do you think he's aggressive and in control and dominiant? Or do you think sex is the only time he lets his playful side out? Does he make sure the girls get off first or is he pretty focused on just his own needs? Does he ever have tender romantic sex or is it all fun-but-unemotional?

Lisa apparently thought he was notable enough to still be talking wistfully about their weekend together 8 years later... And he was willing to be creative and open to suggestion enough to have "the bendiest weekend of his life." That *was* eight years ago, though - is he different in bed now that he's 30?

Discuss!

Comments

What do I think Dean Winchester is like in bed???

[softbluebuddy.livejournal.com]

Hon, I read this entry right before I left for work and I would love to go back and forth with you about this all day, but I am seriously going to be tied up here at work for the next 8 to 10 hours, though if you'd like to go back and forth by IM later, that would be awesome.

Because I spend a good portion of every day thinking about what Dean Winchester would be like in bed.

I have narrowed it down to a few thoughts: I think he would be very responsive to his partner, I don't think he'd leave her unsatisfied, I think he could be playful and flirty, but also commanding and dominant if that is what his partner wanted, I don't think that if he had the whole night with a girl that it would be one time, I think he'd go all night, I think that he'd try anything at least once, I think he'd be a champ at going down on a girl, I think he'd be okay with toys in the bedroom, I think he'd be okay spanking a girl and talking completely filthy to her, I think he could be as sweet as could be. I think he could be all these things even to one girl, over one night.

I know you posted this for discussion and you weren't asking for a rec, but I did write a 7 chapter fic where Dean meets a woman who asks him to spend the weekend with her for no strings attached sex. After their first time she says she is embarrassed because it was all about her. He assures her that it was so hot being with a woman who isn't afraid to say what she likes and doesn't make him guess. He tells her in fact his biggest fantasy would be to help her live out all her fantasies over the weekend.

So anyway, all that stuff that I daydream about Dean doing in bed with a woman is in my fic called Shot Through The Heart, it is in my master fic post at the top of my journal with links.

If you don't like recs, I apologize, but since I don't have time to comment back and forth till much later today, that's what I got.

If you ever do want to IM about this, I'd love to. Seriously love to.

Re: What do I think Dean Winchester is like in bed???

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Heheh! Excellent answer! :)

I'm a little busy today myself, but we can chat some other time when we're free. I don't usually read FPS and have not ever read any het FPS, but I will check out your story because it sounds too delicious to resist

In fact, I'm going to have to resist reading it until tonight and it's KILLING ME to have such a teaser!

Add me to IM when you have a chance - I'm salixbabylon at google, yahoo, and MSN. It's salixbabylon01 at AIM. :)

Re: What do I think Dean Winchester is like in bed???

[softbluebuddy.livejournal.com]

I added you to google and yahoo messaging.

Funny that you don't read FPS because for the most part it was really hard for me to wrap my head around RPS, believe me, I'm totally okay with it now. Especially if you read Phantisma's daddy!verse chapter yesterday that she dedicated to me for my birthday. I'm okay with RPS now, but I can't write it.

I don't normally read het either. What happened is I wrote a one shot called Front Row Seat where a guy offers Dean $1500 to let him and Sam watch Dean fuck his wife. *yeah, I don't know where I get these ideas* and so I wrote that one. I seriously got so much friggin' feedback I couldn't believe it for a fairly new writer.

So I thought and thought about canon Dean. It has to be canon Dean for me. In what situation would he end up with a woman for a weekend? I finally came up with my idea about meeting this woman that he kind of clicks with they agree to the no strings attached sex cause she knows he has to leave come Monday morning and that is how that came about. I don't read much het myself.

Except. Big except here...thenyxie has some het that can melt your panties. But anything she writes kind of falls into that category. IMHO

I look forward to continuing any discussion about this very important matter. :)

[sarka.livejournal.com]

I... have no opinion on the matter.

*stares unfocusedly into the middle distance*

*eyes glaze over*

*windows steam up*

...Sorry, what?

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Was he so pretty he melted your brain when you thought of all that prettiness in bed with a girl? Maybe *you*?

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Maybe me?

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I need a moment alone. ;)

[sarka.livejournal.com]

I think maybe you, me and Dean. That'd be a winning combo.

Poor guy would never know what hit him.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Hehehe!

Damn right - he'd be the one with the fucked-out grin and sore thighs. ;)

[tularia.livejournal.com]

I can see Dean being everything a woman wants, and just how exactly he'd go about it would depend on the type of relationship.
A quickie? I think he'd see to the woman before getting his own jollies, but it probably wouldn't be an all-nighter. Life of a hunter just doesn't allow the time, ya know?
Now, if he managed to settle down, I can see him being an all around great bed partner. From quirky to sexy to romantic to hotter-than-hellfire and kinky too. Men learn to love women better as they get older - when sex becomes more than just getting off - so I can see him treating a woman at 30 better than he did 25.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Men learn to love women better as they get older - when sex becomes more than just getting off

Amen to that! *rowr* ;)

And I think you're probably right about Dean, in all respects. He obviously likes sex, and women like sex with him, so he must be fairly good at it.

Or incredibly smokin' hot. You know, whichever. *g*

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

I have no brain right now, so I'm not gonna give a full reply. But I want to say how much I love you for this! YAY!

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

Okay...so I have this thing. And I can see him having it too. It's this thing with sensation, touch, awareness. There is something so amazing with just touching and being touched. You have to be completely comfortable with sex to get into it and you can tell that he is. He's comfortable with his own body and can probably make his partner comfortable with theirs. I think that's the key to him. That's why he can make sure his partner is happy. That's why he's willing to try anything. That's why he's willing to play. It's the same way he hunts. Focus, knowledge, trust in himself and his weapons.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Ooh, I can see the touch thing - especially since if you're staying canon and ignoring Wincest, the only touching he gets much of is from the girls he picks up.

I bet he's good at it too... Those hands.... *swoon*

Excellent and thought-proving points. Thank you!

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

EXACTLY! He doesn't get affection elsewhere, so he would be sure to make the most of what he can get here!! And he would also see it as a point of pride to make sure that his partner was satisfied. He would want her to feel affection too!

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

*belated naughty giggle about Dean and his "weapon"*

;)

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

I was trying to not make that joke when I wrote that! I was wondering if there was a better way to phrase that, but it was just too good!

[redrouged.livejournal.com]

Oh I have no idea, except that it would be waaay too hot.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Dean Winchester - causing fires in women's panties since 1978!

[soar38.livejournal.com]

I kind of feel that he'd use a lot of humour at first to set a girl at ease, make her smile, a few cheeky winks, sexy grins, his charm just oozing all over her until she's hooked.

I think he'd be very responsive to a girl's needs, he's never seemed the type to be all about himself. Having said that, he seems to choose the more adventurous types for his one night stands.

I think he's quite open to trying new things as well, especially if there's the promise of a mind blowing orgasm at the end of it.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

He does seem very open to being playful and trying new things, doesn't he? And he chooses girls who are probably up for that too - and those who aren't so uninhibited would probably be willing to give anyhting a try, for him.

I know I would. ;)

[soar38.livejournal.com]

LOL God, yeah! *fans self*