Dean in bed - a discussion

[salixbabylon]

You know how when you're waking up but not quite there and thoughts just wander into your head? Puzzles to be solved, ideas to be pondered. Questions for the ages.

So, f-list, what do *you* think Dean Winchester is like in bed? (With girls - not Sam.)

He's obviously a good enough flirt and touchy enough to get girls to go somewhere semi-private enough to fuck them. And if you see them after, they always seem to have that tired-but-very-pleased well-fucked look, and wouldn't mind another tumble.

Do you think he's aggressive and in control and dominiant? Or do you think sex is the only time he lets his playful side out? Does he make sure the girls get off first or is he pretty focused on just his own needs? Does he ever have tender romantic sex or is it all fun-but-unemotional?

Lisa apparently thought he was notable enough to still be talking wistfully about their weekend together 8 years later... And he was willing to be creative and open to suggestion enough to have "the bendiest weekend of his life." That *was* eight years ago, though - is he different in bed now that he's 30?

Discuss!

Comments

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

I have no brain right now, so I'm not gonna give a full reply. But I want to say how much I love you for this! YAY!

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

Okay...so I have this thing. And I can see him having it too. It's this thing with sensation, touch, awareness. There is something so amazing with just touching and being touched. You have to be completely comfortable with sex to get into it and you can tell that he is. He's comfortable with his own body and can probably make his partner comfortable with theirs. I think that's the key to him. That's why he can make sure his partner is happy. That's why he's willing to try anything. That's why he's willing to play. It's the same way he hunts. Focus, knowledge, trust in himself and his weapons.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Ooh, I can see the touch thing - especially since if you're staying canon and ignoring Wincest, the only touching he gets much of is from the girls he picks up.

I bet he's good at it too... Those hands.... *swoon*

Excellent and thought-proving points. Thank you!

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

EXACTLY! He doesn't get affection elsewhere, so he would be sure to make the most of what he can get here!! And he would also see it as a point of pride to make sure that his partner was satisfied. He would want her to feel affection too!

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

*belated naughty giggle about Dean and his "weapon"*

;)

[ladykatiewench.livejournal.com]

I was trying to not make that joke when I wrote that! I was wondering if there was a better way to phrase that, but it was just too good!