People write about sex and tops and bottoms and doms and subs and assume that things work certain ways. They assume that there is real pain and degradation involved. If any of these people just asked, there are a lot of people who'd be willing to help out and get them to understand how things work!
It actually started when I read yet another fic where, prior to the start of the story, Jensen had been raped. And I needed to express my displeasure at that. And it turned into a fun little chat!
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Date: 2008-06-10 01:27 am (UTC)People write about sex and tops and bottoms and doms and subs and assume that things work certain ways. They assume that there is real pain and degradation involved. If any of these people just asked, there are a lot of people who'd be willing to help out and get them to understand how things work!
I don't know if you are interested, but I've been having a similar conversation over on my lj today. If you wanna check it out, it's over here: http://ladykatiewench.livejournal.com/687610.html
It actually started when I read yet another fic where, prior to the start of the story, Jensen had been raped. And I needed to express my displeasure at that. And it turned into a fun little chat!