Moment of Pause

[salixbabylon]

Been having a lot of whiny, jealous, "why isn't my life like X's" thoughts lately. This is a good reminder to cultivate my own garden, actively turn it into what I want, rather than passively hope someone will give it to me.

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[rosi.livejournal.com]

...and the people on the other side have to mow their lawn, too.

*huggery*

[writerinchains.livejournal.com]

So it's not just me, then. That's a relief -- in a way -- at least I'm in good company. *hug*

Thanks for this, it's worth pondering.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

So true - takes a lot of work, growing your own lawn... :)

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Well, I'm thinking even jealousy/envy counts as step 1 - figure out what you want/don't want. But then it's importact to take action on step 2 - how to get it. ;)

[nilhenwen.livejournal.com]

I fall into this trap a lot. I think it's because for so long I want able to change my circumstances that it's become a habit to just wait for things to change.

Good thing to remember :) I always look forward to these from you :)

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

Habits are difficult to break - but I know you can do it. :)

[kc-risenphoenix.livejournal.com]

This is awesome. Don't be surprised if I post it!

(((HUGS))) on what ever is making you whiny.

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

:) *hug*