still more meme

[salixbabylon]

Questions from tillie1202:

1. Okay, I've always wondered this, but if it's too personal, don't feel like you have to answer... Is your RL sex life as varied and/or kinky as what you write, or is the writing a way of living out your desires, or do you just simply like to read/write kink?

*snort* Writing is definitely a way of living out my desires. My RL sex life is not very kinky, although it goes through phases and I am currently enjoying one. :) I have always liked reading kink, though, since forever.

2. What, in your opinion, is the perfect date?

Hm... Getting all dressed up in fancy clothes, having a nice dinner somewhere, going to the symphony or opera or something, and then out for a fattening dessert sounds great. But I'm basically a simple creature at heart, and an evening of renting an amusing comedy and having good time together making out on the couch or in the bathtub is also just as nice. :)

3. If you had to choose one, would it be Viggo or Orlando? Why?

Today, I choose Viggo. I've always been more confident that he might find me attractive, whereas I have no proof whatsoever that Orlando would give me a second look. Plus, I'd probably more to talk about with Viggo, even if there was no sexual chemistry.

4. What accomplishment in your life are you most proud of?

Current answer = making my marriage work. It was an assload of hard work, but we did it, and I'm very glad.

5. Do you believe in fate/predestination or do you believe you control your own future?

I believe in both? I think you are born with a blueprint of qualities and possibilities(including the families we are born into - that's a sort of fate), and that our choices and how we live our lives give us the control to do what we will. I like to think I have a Grand Purpose For Being Here, but I also think I can choose not to do it.

Comments

[tillie1202.livejournal.com]

I very much agree with your answer to number 5, but you put it in much better words than I'm ever able to! :)

Feel like interviewing me? It's been at least an hour since I last posted one... ;P

[salixbabylon.livejournal.com]

1) How did you get into your current line of work?

2) What is your favorite kink to read about? ;)

3) Earth, Air, Water, and Fire -- which one are you?

4) Choose: You get to make out with Viggo. -OR- You get to make out with Orlando. -OR- Viggo and Orlando promise to make out with each other but you cannot watch and there will be no proof. Which do you choose and why?

5) What is the meaning of life?